Bridal March Song

I still don't know what will be my bridal march song, but my friend advice me that it should be a surprise. The gown and the bridal march should be a 'top secret" from the groom, to keep the element of surprise during the aisle walk.

But this is H's suggestion for my bridal march song



H is a fan of WWF. When I was younger, I used to watch WWF also together with my father, and my favorites were Hulk Hogan, Macho Man and Andre the Giant. But now, I don't watch it anymore, but H and his cousin are still fond of it. They still love watching it. They even sometimes do their moves to each other, and as always, H's cousin is under his mercy while H is under my mercy :-) Yes, I sometimes join their short sparring haha! I'm after all H's little sumo wrestler. He started calling me that when he noticed my widow's peak, although it's not that distinct.

There's another WWF that H supports used to support - the World Wildlife Foundation. Funny thing, I'm not familiar with the acronym before. So when he mentioned it to me that he donates to WWF, I raised my eyebrow and asked "World Wrestling Federation?!" I guess my being clueless that time was a good point, because he found out that I know and watch and like wrestling. A girl who likes wrestling is not common - I think - in this side of the world, so it's an added ganda points! :-)

Bangla 101; Lesson 003: Present Perfect Tense /Past Tense

Present perfect tense : action started in the past, continuing in the present and time period is not finished

Verb Formation:

all verbs are H.S. = ending

*a = e ; long verb ending in a = i

VR = 1st = 2nd for. = 2nd inf. = 3rd formal = 3rd inf.
POR = PoRechi = PoRechen = PoRecho = PoRechen = PoReche (read)
bOl = bolechi = bolechen = bolecho = bolechen = boleche (say/talk)
oTH = uThechi = uThechen = uThecho = uThechen = uTheche (get up)
khEl = khelechi = khelechen = khelecho = khelechen = kheleche (play)
SEkh = Sikhechi = Sikhechen = Sikhecho = Sikhechen = Sikheche (leatn)

aS = eSechi = eSechen = eSecho = eSechen = eSeche (come)
Thak = Thekechi = Thekechen = Thekecho = Thekechen = Thekeche (stay / leave it)
kha = kheyechi = kheyechen = kheyecho = kheyechen = kheyeche (eat/drink/ anything to put inside mouth)

ja = giyechi = giyechen = giyecho = giyechen = giyeche (go)
ne = niyechi = niyechen = niyecho = niyechen = niyeche (take)

ghuma = ghumiyechi = ghumiyechen = ghumiyecho = ghumiyechen = ghumiyeche (sleep)
Cala = Caliyechi = Caliyechen = Caliyecho = Caliyechen = Caliyeche (drive)

Negative Past Tense:
present tense + ni

negative present tense
present tense + na

e.g.
+ past tense: ami gotokal baNla Sikhechi = i yesterday bangla learned = i learned bangla yesterday
- past tense: ami gotokal baNla Sikhi ni = i yesterday bangla learn not = i did not learn bangla yesterday.

present tense : ami jay = i go = i'm going
past tense : ami gotokal giyechi = i yesterday went = i went yesterday
present perfect : ami giyechi = ami go = i just went
- present tense : ami jay na = i go no = i'm not going
- past tense : ami jay ni = i go not = i didn't go.

present tense : ami biryani khai = i biryani eat = i eat biryani
past tense : ami Sokale biryani kheyechi = i morning biryani ate = i ate biryani this morning
present perfect : ami biryani kheyechi = i biryani eaten = i have eaten a biryani
- present tense : ami biryani khai na = i biryani eat no = i don't eat biryani ' i'm not eating
- past tense : ami biryani khai ni = i biryani eat not = i didn't eat the biryani


Present Perfect Tense
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Bangla 101: Lesson 002: Present Tense

Verb Formation

In bangla, learning the right verb to use is crucial (I find it crucial!). Verb changes not just according to tense but also according to the pronoun use. If in English language, we just have to learn the verb formation according to past, future and present tense, in bangla you need to know the tenses and the pronouns and if it is for formal or informal conversation.

There are different rules in Verb Formation, and for easier recall and understanding, verb root are group into six, 1) initial – where letter “a” is in the beginning of the verb; 2) middle – letter “a” is in the middle; 3) Final – letter “a” is in ending; 4) others – verbs with different ending and doesn’t fall under 1 or 2; 5) consonant ending; and 6) long verbs – verb root that are 2 syllables.

Verb Root
1. Initial:
aS = come
an = bring

2. Middle
thak = leave / stay (keep
jan = know
par = can, able

3. Final
kha = eat, drink, smoking, taking medicines, any action of putting something inside/thru the mouth
ja = go
Pa = get, receive
Ca = want

4. Others
ne = take
de = give

5. Consonant ending
Sekh = learn
Lekh = write
khel = play
dEkh = look, see, watch
bOl = say, speak, talk
POR = read
kOr = do
bOS = sit
oTh = get up
Son = listen
Bojh = understand

6. Long verbs
ghuma = sleep
Cala = drive
bana = make, prepare
Patha = send
doWra = run

Note: C =ch, S = sh, s = s


PRESENT TENSE; present action; habitual action

Rules Formation:

1. Verbs with “a” initial, middle, final position and long verbs: V.R. + personal ending

V.R. = 1st = 2nd formal = 2nd informal = 3rd formal = 3rd informal
aS (come) = aSi = aSen = aSo = aSen = aSe
thak (stay) = thaki = thaken = thako = thaken = thake
ja (go) = jay = jan = jaw= jan =jaY
ghuma (sleep) ghumay = ghuman = ghumaw = ghuman = ghumaY

2. For consonant ending verbs, only 1st person is exception, it will be H.S.(high stem) + ending but other persons same as before V.R. + ending

a = e; E = e; e = i; O = o; o = u

V.R. = 1st = 2nd formal = 2nd informal = 3rd formal = 3rd informal
Sekh (learn) = Sikhi = Sekhen = Sekho = Sekhen = Sekhe
lekh (write) = likhi = lekhen = lekho =lekhen = lekhe
khEl (play) = kheli = khElen = khElo = khElen = khEle
bOl (speak) = boli = bOlen = bOlo = bOlen = bOle
oth (get up) = uthi = othen = otho = othen = othe

Exception:

ne (take) = ney = nen =new = nen = neY
de (give) = dey = den = dew = den = deY

negative: add “na”
ami bujhi na = I understand no = I don’t understand

Name...Nam...Pangalan...Nagan

My nickname is Peachy, and I believe the meaning of that is “love” because of the story my mother told me. According to her, she wants to name me peachy but for some reason, she chose another name which means noble, and used peachy as my short name instead. The reason why she loves “peachy” is because that’s the term of endearment of her previous boss to his wife, which they say is “love”, so she decided to give me the short name Peachy.

Growing up, my family, friends and relatives calls me a lot of different names: peachy, chy, peach, chippypie and disqua – short for disqualified, a name given to me by my aunt because I’m mischievous so I’m disqualified to join the “Little Miss Philippines”. While my colleagues and not-so close friends calls me Patricia and another teacher calls me Marypat. In university, I had a classmate whose name is almost similar with mine, we have the same second name, middle initial and surname. If you are not looking at us and just reading our names, you will think we are twins, so one professor refers to me as Mary and her as Carla. It will be only in our later years when this professor started calling me by my short name Peachy.

In bangla, peachy as a name is not common. And most of the time, it is mistaken to be “pitchi”, and pitchi means child or small person/kid, and yeah, it really fits me! Another colleague calls me “PC”. Most of the time, i don't hear my name anymore as everyone in the office calls me either madam or ma'am And now, whenever someone calls me by my name, it sounds weird especially if they use Patricia.

But of all the names that were given to me, nothing compares to the names H calls me. His endless terms of endearment to me and the list are still adding up. While the other tags are not originally his but by his cousin who finds amusement in giving names also.

Genie: he doesn’t call me genie, but at the beginning of our relationship, he referred to me as his genie. An offshoot from a TV series where there’s this genie that appears to her master every time the master is sad, in despair, upset. And the genie always makes everything right, giving him happiness and joy and showing him there is good in this life.
Cheeseball: oh yeah, for my body shape
full moon: i have a cute round face
Dash/dashu: I’m the reincarnation of his favorite dog! With short short legs and for my love of biting!
muttley like what i said, i'm reincarnation of Dash and my love of biting. Shocks! Old habits die hard, i remember during grade school, my older sister's classmates (boys) started teasing/calling me "doogie-doogie" because I bite them whenever they tease/bully me.
Chimpooh: for my non-stop antics
smurf: i really have a cute body size
Dhaka sausage/ vigan longganiza: short & fat
Bumpire: did I mention about my love of biting.
Minion: well, I’m just so cute like them 
Darling
goblin: i can mimic the voice that scares his cousin

But the name that we call each other as endearment are honey, baby, piglet, piggy, taba, honeytaba, honeybaboy, honeybaby. Names may not be sweet but we say it with affection and love: small piece of shit & big piece of shit . The only time he calls me by my name is whenever we are around other people, and believe me, it sounded so weird. and also, whenever I'm being too mischievous!

As for me, I just call him honey, taba or guapo even if there are other people around us :-)

Bangla 101: Lesson 001

Note: big N = ng; small n = n; big S = sh, small s = s.

Rules in Bangla 3 locative ending (at, in, to, for, by)
1. For consonant ending noun, add "e"
e.g. Gulshane , baSe , Mirpure

2. For vowels ending noun, add "te"
e.g. bOnanite , CNGite , dhanmondite

3. when ending with a, add Y(e)
e.g. DhakaY , americaY , khulnaY , rikshaY

Sample sentences:
Q: apnar oPhis kothay? (your office where = where is your office?)
A: amar ophis Gulshane (my office gulshan = my office is in gulshan)

Q: aPnar baSa kothay? (your house where = where is your house?)
A: amar baSa bOnanite (my house banani = my house is in banani)

DIRECTIONS:
ba.me = left
Da.ne = right
di.ke = to the
bam dike = to the left
dan dike = to the right
So.ja = straight
Sam.ne = infront
Pi.cho.ne = behind
bhi.to.re = inside
bay.re = outside
u.po.re = up /top
ni.che = under / down

ut.tor = north uttor dike = to the north
pur.bo / pub = east purbo dike = to the east
poScim = west poScim dike = to the west
dok.khin = south dokkhin dike = to the south

e.kha.ne = here
o.kha.ne = there
e.ta = this
o.ta = that


Names of the Days
ro.bi.bar = sunday
Som.bar = monday
moN.gol.bar = tuesday
budh.bar = wednesday
bri.hoS.po.ti.bar = thursday
Su.kro.bar = friday
So.ni.bar = saturday

Parts of the Day
So.kal = morning
du.Pur = noon
bi.kal = afternoon
Son.dha = evening
rat = night

Time
ghOn.Ta = hour
din = day
SOP.ta = week
MaS = month
bO.chor = year

gO.to = last
a.ga.mi = next
Pro.ti = every
aj.Ke / aj = today
go.to.kal = yesterday
a.ga.mi.kal = tomorrow
pro.ti.din = everyday

Expressions/feelings
khu.Si = happy
duk.khi.to = sorry / sad
mon kha.rap = sad / sorry
bes.to = busy
klan.to = tired
O.Sus.tho = sick

Personal Pronouns

Bangla 101: Sentence Composition & Verb Formation

Last 2010, I hired a bangla teacher for me. I learned the basic sentence composition and verb construction. But after the Basic Class, I stopped. The tutorial fee is quite hefty, 3000 taka/class which is 3 hours per day. I decided I will just continue learning on my own since I already know the basic sentence composition and the verb formation. But, I just totally ignored it.

Now, I'm re-learning the language again. Bangla is considered one of the toughest (if not the toughest) language in the world. I'm doing it simultaneously - reading & speaking - as I don't know which one is more effective for me. Of course, talking with the locals will be the best exercise, but since my language background is of formal learning, talking with the locals who are mostly using short cut and street dialects already will be confusing also. Reading can help me in expanding my vocabulary. This is an effective way in expanding one's vocabulary, I remember reading Funny Komiks, Bata-Batuta and Pambata as a kid, Sweet Valley Twins in grade school and Nancy Drew for my book reports in high school. Until now, I love to read books, and it's a hobby/passion that both me and my fiance share.

In reading, one has to recognize the bangla alphabets. Aside from recognizing it, one has to learn the proper & correct pronunciation of the Bangla alphabet first. A change or difference in pronunciation may mean another word.This is quite tough for me, I'm already declaring myself a tone deaf because I find it hard to recognized the difference between their 4 To/to/tho/Tho and 4 do/Do/dho/Dho and 3 sho/ssho/ssho.The bangla alphabets are tougher to recognize once it's form into words, there are two or 3 letters that you have to write together and it will look totally different character, and there's also a case that you can write this letters in two or 3 different ways.

Aside from the difficulty of recognizing and pronouncing the alphabets, the sentence composition can make your world turn around 360 degrees.It is the exact opposite of English sentence composition and verbs are confusing too. Basic formula for sentence compositions are:

1. subject + object + verb

in english we say "I understand bangla", in bangla we say "ami bangla bujhi", in direct english translation it's "I bangla understand"

2. Subject + time + place + object + verb
E: I learn Bangla in Banani on Saturday.
B: ami sonibar bonanite bangla sikhi.
i saturday in banani Bangla learn.

3. subject in possessive + noun/object + lagbe/dorkar (need)
E: I need water
B: amar pani lagbe
my/mine water need

I will try to write a separate post regarding this because there are lots of rules in sentence composition. The "articles" are not a word in bangla but are letters to be added with the noun. Take note that I'm not an expert here, I'm not even an english teacher so I will not be able to remember the right terms for some things. Who can remember the grade school english subject regarding Linking verbs, articles and a lot more, not me for sure.

Verbs are important to remember also. Verbs in bangla changes depending on who are you talking with, and that's what making it hard for me to memorize everything. Unlike in English and Filipino language where you can use one verb for 1st, 2nd and 3rd person, in Bangla that isn't the case. The bangla changes per person and take note that there are formal and informal verbs too. Use the formal verb form when talking to older persons, person of authority, formality between colleagues and strangers.

This is my excel sheet of verb construction. Notice that under the 2nd person and 3rd person, there is two column. First one is the formal form of You which is apni/apnara (singular/plural) and the informal form of you which is tumi/tomra (single/plural). The next column is the formal form of he/she/they are tini/tara(plural) and the informal form se/tara(plural). Notice also that there's no gender difference there.